What got me into posting the entry on
platonic friendship is really because of this female friend of mine whom I have a fantastic friendship with.
We have a quite funny way of addressing each other, I call her Gugu while she call me Guo Er. If you guys know the novel/show, Return of the Condor Hero, the two main characters will be a guy, Yang Guo and his girl, Xiao Long Nu, that's how they address each other, Guo Er and Gugu.
Quite childish right? Haha...but it's kind of fun. Quite appropriate as she is just a little older than me, even when we are outside, we will still call each other Gugu and Guo Er, seldom her name or my name.
I first know Gugu through JRM and the first topic that we talk about was Beyond, our favorite band. From there, our friendship took off and we realized that we share quite a number of things in common. E.g. the food we like and how it was to be done, the kind of soup that we like, etc.
She is my talk cock buddy during work time, without her, life in office will be very very different and boring. When I encounter any problems at my work, I always know who to look for. She will always help me whenever circumstances permit. I've always trouble her to vet through my reports for grammar mistakes. Ya....if you guys have been reading my blog, you people should know that my English sucks to the max. Haha. That's why she is there to help me, sort of my PA. I always tell her that, the day I become my own boss, she will be my PA.
I can still remember the very first day I met her, I took her to the wrong country club for our golf lesson, and when she found out it was the wrong place, the look that she gave me.....I think I could die right at that very moment. It was so scary especially her eyes....I named that look, the "xie yan".
So far she is the only girl whom I will take advice from seriously because she's only one who can see right through mind and know exactly what I am thinking....I wouldn't say all but most of the time, that's the case.
There was a few times, when I was actually feeling down, she actually ring up or send a simple msg and asked,
"Are you okie?" I was shock....like how would she know in the first place? Maybe that's the telepathy between us ba, just like sometimes I don't really feel that right in my heart when she is actually feeling down.
Glad to have found a friend like her :)
"The rain and the clouds may cover the sun. But we know that the sun never forget to shine, just like you, we might not see each other often but you'll always shine in my heart"
